God has plans for us to grow and fulfill his purpose for our life. That purpose can be several things, a career, a friendship, a volunteer event, a hobby, a spouse, children. Etc. He has plans for us. When we say Lord your will not mine our life will be much much better, because he has powers that we do not have and he loves us. Never underestimate the power of God when you are doing his will and his work. Give his glory the kingdom and you will be amazed at where he takes you!